Saturday, August 05, 2006

PEACE FOR TEENAGERS

HOW TO BRING PEACE INTO YOUR LIFE !!!

Whether you are a boy or a girl , you feel love. When you fall in love , it is hard for you to keep your balance. At that time , you have to face either success or failure , happiness or sadness , pleasure or sorrow , gladness or trouble , etc.
In your success , you are OK in everything , but in your failure , you can not accept it and you are not peaceful in mind and you feel trouble , pain , sadness , grief , sorrow , etc.

Well ! If you face failure in love , what will you do?
There are some ways to pass over failure and to bring peace into your life.


SILENTLY SAY TO YOURSELF!!!!!!!!

  1. It is natural for everybody to feel trouble , pain , sadness , grief , sorrow , etc.
  2. There are many people just like me all over the world.
  3. All over the world , there are many people , who have experienced trouble , pain , sadness , grief , sorrow , etc. like I feel that now.
  4. There are many people , who are happy and peaceful and laughing and smiling , just unlike me.
  5. A person's life is impermanent and will one day end . Before I die , I must live happily and peacefully.

Friday, July 28, 2006

LOVE !!!

Love does not have "giving up" and "winning".


Love means :

  • creating a very new life by combining the two lives.
  • feeling the new emotions.
  • knowing and understanding each other.
  • wanting to do the best for each other.
  • sharing the lives with each other.
  • sharing suffering with each other.
  • sharing happiness with each other.
  • bringing peace into the life.
  • never saying "good bye".

LOVE IS NOT A THING TO WORSHIP!!!

love is a basic human need.
Early romantic love is associated with neutral activity in a brain region, which is responsible for our most basic human needs.The fact shows that early romantic love is "an important evolutionary reproductive strategy". As humans, we have a highly motivated drive towards romantic love. The same brain region motivates you to go find a bottle of water , or a piece of cake when you are very thirsty or hungry. After all , romantic love is as basic to us as eating or drinking.
That's sharing my knowledge with you.
Everybody feels love.According to someone's experience,love is different in meaning.Love makes me happy , but love makes you sad or love makes someone either happy or sad or hot in heart or peaceful in mind ,etc.
Actually , love is love! Love exists itself. People , who feel love , define it in different ways. Love is not a thing to worship. Love is only a special thing for someone. You have love for someone , and I have love for someone.
Love has happiness , kindness , peace , rememberance , attachment , and many things I can't afford to say. But when your love is in trouble , you feel sadness , hotness , unpeace , low appetide , sleeplessness , the failure of ability of normal being and so on.
Therfore , keep in mind that
love is love ,
love is not me , love is not you ,
my love ends never ,
after my first love has ended , the second love comes ,and the first love has been a dream.
when the second love ends , the third love comes , and the second love has been a dream.
love in my heart ends never .
In life , which is short , only about a century , love is a dream , that lasts forever . Love looks like a plant. A plant wilts when it does not get water , it fall leaves in summer , it bear new leaves in rainy season. Love is like these. When you don't get someone's love , the heart wilts,when the first love ends with first person , the second love comes with the second person.
Some sell love and others buy love. Actually , they don't sell love , they sell the body. They don't buy love , they buy the body. Love is applied as a thing to cover it.

LOVE FOR TEENAGERS

LOVE=LIFE
First and foremost , I would like to say the meaning of love and life I use.
I mean love is "loving someone" or "1500 love" or "love between boys and girls".
I mean life means the time between birth and death.
Love is very important for life. Unless you have love , you will not be happy all the time in your whole life. There is always a blank in your mind until you die. If other people go well with someone they love together , you have to go alone and you feel lonely.
I have ever asked over-40-year old men and women , who have never got lover in life and are not married. All answer "living alone is not good", and they usually guide me "Do look for partner", and say to me "Life is worthwhile living with children". They always love nieces and nephews very much because they have no sons and daughters.
Therefore in life , love is importantly needed.
Some people don't believe in love . That is because they have seen an unfaithful person . All over the world , there are still many faithful people. Because you don't believe in a person , don't say " I don't believe in love".
Love stands on faith and truth. If you have not faith and truth , your love never exits in your heart. Love can create a happy world for you.
Love may be a problem for teenagers because it is the first time , or for everybody if it is the first love. The first love makes us uneasy. After the first love , you are everything is Ok. If you have the second love , you are Ok. There is one point kept in your mind ,
"Don't make LOVE=LIFE before marriage.
It is very , very , important for you.
There are many people , who play love. Who play love? Suppose Mg Mg loves Ni Ni and at the same time , he loves Hla Hla . He plays love. He loves two girls at the same time. Actually he has no love and he is looking for happiness with a girl by using love. There are many girls like him. We call a man who plays football "football player" , a man who plays volleyball "volleyball player" , a man who plays tennis "tennis player" , and so on . We should call a person who plays love "love player".
Be aware of love player!!!!!!!!!!
They can break your heart.

Thursday, July 20, 2006

HEART IS A PLANT ; LOVE IS A FLOWER .

  • When I was 15 years old , I had a friend , whose name is Thu Zar Lwin . She and I were in the same calss . We went to go to school together , played together , read the lessons together , and ate rice together in the afternoon . We both had attachment on each other . One day I gave her a love letter . I got no reply from her , but she told me "We both are too young to love ." After I had heard her words , I was under the weather.I did not want to eat and drink anything . I had sleepless nights , I did not want to go to school together , play , read the lessons and eat rice together . My heart wilted as if a plant wilts without geting water .
  • When I was in a university , I had a friend , whose name is Chaw Ei , one of my best friends . I had the unforgettable days with her . We shared time and happiness with each other . We discussed about love and she told me about her love and I said to her about my love . In the third year , I proposed to her . She told me "I have a friend . He is waiting for me . Now he is wroking in a company ." Her words took my breath away , even though I had prepared to accept her reply . My second love is like water is poured into sand .
  • A couple of years later , while working in Yangon , I met my childhood friend , Thu Zar Lwin , who moved to Yangon ten years ago . She was very happy to see me and so was I . There are in our memories a handful of images of our childhood days . We were happy to say about our childhood days . We went to Shwedagon pagoda and Sulae pagoda and then went to work together every morning . Every Saturday , we watched a movie .
  • On a beautiful evening , while walking in Kandawgyi garden , I told her ,

"We are not too young ." She smiled at me and said to me ,

"Do you remember what I said in 8th standard." I told her about our childhood story .

"At that time , I was small and you were young . Now...............", I got lost in words.

"What ?" , she said.

"By the way , have you got a boyfriend?", I asked .

"No and you ?" she whispered .

"I would like to walk the rest of my way together with you ."

  • Now we have got a child , who is 5 years old . We love each other very much . I can't live without her and neither can she . We are not two but only one . She loves her son and I love my son . We are alive for our son .
  • Love is like a flower and heart is like a plant . When the first flower falls down , the plant bears the new flower . Love and heart are in the same way .